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Monday, January 09, 2006

Monday Questionnaire
Hey, We're Only Human Edition

1. What character flaw do you suspect people misunderstand you as having, though you actually don't?

2. What character flaw did you used to have, until you grew out of it?

3. What character flaw do you try the hardest to avoid having?


Blogger Eric said...

1. Snobbishness.

2. Self-righteousness.

3. Hubris.

11:42 AM  
Blogger kStyle said...

Ooh, this is an interesting one.

1. A few people have accused me of being cold/distant. This is not true. My accusers are needy people with poor boundaries. :D

2. I've outgrown excessive chattering.

3. I try to avoid lacking mindfulness; that is to say, I try to cultivate mindfulness. My mom, love her to death, doesn't always notice what's right in front of her, because...she's too busy chattering.

12:08 PM  
Blogger Ann said...

1. Snobbishness, too--although, in some cases, they're probably right. I am just not interested in what certain people have to say.

2. The tendency to care so much about what other people think of me that I change my behavior and/or make excuses. I've only partly outgrown this one.

3. Resentfulness and bitterness, two of the least useful responses to any situation

2:55 PM  
Blogger Emma Goldman said...

1. Unhappiness. I rant a lot, and people who don't know me well or who aren't paying attention don't always realize that I'm actually pretty content, and the ranting is a way of working out how to make things better.
2. Self-righteousness. Yeah, I probably still come off that way sometimes, but I think it comes from insecurity, and I'm less insecure (or I care less about the fact that I'm insecure, which isn't the same thing) than I used to be.
3. I'm with Ann on this one. When I find myself on the resentful/bitter path, I try very hard to practice compassion, which I've found to be a useful antidote.

10:28 PM  

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